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Healing While Pruning The Scars On The Heart

Healing While Pruning The Scars On The Heart

[bctt tweet=”I have a very hard time with moving forward when things in my marriage seem to be out of whack; but God is always about when is is calling for correction, and even in reconciliation. ” username=”@mendthevow”]

There is a silent cry that lingers in my heart that weeps for the heart of my husband but there is a God that knows that heart of Man, and He is there when I fall apart. Sometimes I cry a lot because I often think that God is always taken my husband’s side. I know that thinking this way will not get me anywhere; so I started using the advice that was given to me by one of my good friends Madonna she simply said when you feel defeated about something just go into a praise, and thank God like He’s already done it for you.

I did not want to hear any of this because I was already in my feeling, and I just wanted to scream; but let me tell you how good God is! As I was at home later on in the day after getting this advice from Madonna I was sitting on my bed feeling really down, and before I knew it I started transitioning how I was feeling into a thankful praise unto God. I really felt better and I really knew that God just want me to praise Him in all that I am facing right now in my marriage.

Learning to move forward is not easy when it seems like I am the only one standing for my marriage, and even in these times I can still hear God redirecting my feet back into His appointed direction for me to walk on. My feet has been planted once again where God is leading them to stay on, and I have to be, and remain obedient to Him.

My prayer tonight is simply allow the cries of my heart to tap into a radical worship that leads to a radical praise in warfare for the battle cry of my marriage. I pray these things in Jesus name amen.



Understanding Your Husband

Understanding Your Husband

What is understand? 

Understanding is a form of love which love is an action based on the good encouters of your heart towards someone, and it should be the way in the connections with your husband. But what happens when you, and your husband are on the outs will you still be there to understand what he needs from you as his wife?

Nothing is more concrete in marriage as an understanding heart of a wife for her husband, and this is needed in this present season for wives to be more understanding no matter what yur marriage is facing currently it is time to have a ear to listen, and a heart to understand your husband more than ever.

God is a God of understanding, and if He is giving us His undevived understanding than it is within us as wives to give our husband’s understanding as God gives unto us.

The following scriptures speaks to the heart about understanding from God’s perspective. 

“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the Lord, and depart from evil. It shall be health to thy navel, and marrow to thy bones.

Honour the Lord with thy substance, and with the firstfruits of all thine increase: So shall thy barns be filled with plenty, and thy presses shall burst out with new wine. My son, despise not the chastening of the Lord; neither be weary of his correction:”

There are a lot of things to consider 

  1. You have to look at things from an understanding heart, and not from a place of judgement.
  2. You have to be willing to go the extra mile even when you are feeling some type of way towards your husband.
  3. You have to take how you are feeling to God, and God alone in prayer concerning your husband.
  4. Do not let the weight of what you are feeling over shadow what God has instructed you to do concerning your husband.

‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭3:5-11‬ ‭KJV‬‬


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Opening The Door Way Too Your Husnad’s Heart

Opening The Door Way Too Your Husnad’s Heart

What I have learned over the years as a wife is to learnn how to be kind in areas where i want to disturb my husbands peace in the flesh because of an agrument or some petty nature of the female mind that needs to reign in the victory where God is not no where being glorified.

This is how I use to think, and I use to say mean things that in over a course of time ruined that heart of my husband I tore down his manHood, and disrespected him to no end. I was a horrible person at the time, and I knew that I needed healing but I did not care to give the time to it in order for my breakthrough to come.

I would soak in the things that i let consume my heart, and without warning I would spill it over into the heart of my husband, and this created a huge gap in our marriage for a lng period of time, and it destroyed me as a wife for a long period of time I worked on trying to repair the heart of my husband’s heart, but it was closed from all the years of damaged that I had caused it, and It would not open for me,

i had to really do someone soul searching ,and really get before God to ask Him to heal me, and lead my husbad’s eart back to a repaired heart, and to be healed from all the things that i had poured into it. see the thing about healing is you have to admit the ugly thinngs in marriage is I had to admit the role that i played without blaiming my husband for my actions.

[bctt tweet=”The thoughts that I think towards my husband are pure, and not of deceit. I will use my words to build him up, and not to tear him down. i speak Love, and truth towards him for all the days of my life. I vow to rebuild trust, love, communication, and friendship with our marriage. Titus 2:1″ username=”@mendthevow”]

If you are currently facing this error in your marriage , and you are doing things that are causing your husband’s heart to turn from you. It’s time that you take the appropriate steps in fall on your knees, and start praying to God to first forgive you of the things that you have done to bring discord to your marriage, and also hurt to your husband’s heart. And this will be the time where you have to get out of God’s way in order for Him to do what you can not do, and this is to speak directly to the heart of your husband.

Dear God,

I thank you for a will to come to a heart of repentence for the things that I know that caused my husbad’s heart to hurt. i pray that you will lead his heart to forgiveness towards me, and that you will begain to repair the trust, love, and friendship between my husband, and I. I ask that you allow peace to reign in our home, and in our hearts. Father I pray that there will not be any unresolved residue lingering around tring to align itself back within our marriage.I pray these things in Jesus’ name. Amen!

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On & Off The Court Of Prayer

On & Off The Court Of Prayer

Guest Blog

Written By: Laniece Joseph

Play Your Position

Have you ever sat and watched a NBA play off game? In most cases you’ll find in the beginning of the game, the teams are neck and neck.

One team would score and the next would follow. It always interested me that they would come out playing their hardest and by the time half time comes majority of their momentum would die down. Key players would be out of position causing the other team to score and get ahead. Which eventually costs them the game.

In my marriage and walk with Christ I’ve been experiencing a similar issue. I start off praying, fasting, laying out, seeking his face and reading his word. Many days im eager to get before him. Im looking for the enemy to try and sneak a shot in.

Im on my post expecting him to come my way. Just like the players in the game i grow tired. I become burned out. Here comes inconsistency! Now my walk is slowly declining. Before i know it i let the enemy  in and up ahead. Me being out of position not only causes me to lose but my team (my husband, family & the body of Christ) to lose as well.

Its not enough to recognize the loss. Like the players i must team up with my coach (God) to figure out what caused me to lose. Was it my focus? Did i lose my footing? What did the opposing side (satan and his demons) do better than me? How could i prepare better for the next match?

Father God i thank you for your warnings and correction. I thank you for veils being removed from my eyes. Lord help me to be vigilant and sober . Lord i choose to Put on the full armor of God, so that i can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.

Father God im so greatful to be on your team ! In you i have victory. Apart from you life offers defeat! Nothing but your goodness got me here. Had it not been for you on my side where would i be? Lord im aware of the enemies desires to sift me as wheat. Keep me rooted and grounded in you.

In Jesus mighty name it is so!

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The Fruits Of The Promise

The Fruits Of The Promise

With grace God provides us with His truth in knowing that if we shall wait on His words of what is to come then we will not worry about the things that surround us.

The furits of God’s promise for us is not something that is going to be delivered to us on a silver platter. We must go on a journey with God in order for Him to trust of in some deep areas in the wait on the promise. There will be times were we cannot see themestisifications of God’s plan but as lng as the faith is moving on what we cannot see then we kow that we are heading in the right element in the ways of our faith.


What are your fruits springing up?

Are you rightfully declaring the things of what God has spoken over what you are facing n your marriage.?

Are you sheilding prayer over the promise?

Where do you stand? And how do you feel about it? 


Let’s pray

Dear God,

This morning our hearts are ever before you having all that we know how to do on standing in your promise for our marriage. We have gained so much ground in affirming who, and what you have called us to do. Let your word be on the tip of our lips, and let us joyfully walk in your abundance.

Our eyes are looking up to you that is the author of protection of all that we need in the earthy vessel. This morning we pray on behalf on the needs of marriages that cannot find the strength to sound off the alarm in the war of prayer in their homes. Stand with us, and battle on our behalf in the heavenly realm.

I declare these things over marriages worldwide that you will begin to shift in a way like we have never seen before. Aloow all that we do be pleasing in the sight of you, and in our spouses.

I pray these things in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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