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19 Ways To Become A Better Woman In 2019

19 Ways To Become A Better Woman In 2019

19 Ways To Become A Better Woman In 2019

Becoming a better woman is more than just a saying it is a way of living, and becoming a better woman. 

In this year alone I found myself reeling from a lot of difficult emotions, and not only in my marriage but in my personal life, relationships, friendships, and even with my own mother

I had to evaluate myself, and the many people that wee in my life, and I had to ask myself who was apart of my issues, and who were the foundations of my strength in building lasting friendships, and relationships in my family. 

<The one things I looked at was communication in all areas of my friendships, and what I brought to the table, and what they were lacking in these areas that I was bringing to the table in these friendships.

I then begin to gather different strengths in what kept me holding on to friends. 

1. Was it time spent?

2. Was it the comfort that they brought to my life?

3. Was I settling in just the area of having friendships that did not bring substance to my life? 

Once I place this list in the front  of my mind I had to challenge myself in ways that I normally would not think to do. Why? because I do not like unfriending people in my personal life, and I’m not talking about just on social media I am speaking of disconnecting all the way in real life with them.

Now I want to first state that they are not bad people it is just a decision for my personal growth in my personal journey. Everyone does not see the same outlook on life as i do, and they are not meant to go to my next level of life with me, and this is something that I had to realize on my own. 

There comes a time when friendships outgrown the journey, and there comes a time where it will hurt to say farewell to that friend, but you have to place your purpose above the feelings that you currently feel on the inside of your heart. When God begins to level you up there are two road that you must cross to make it to His level of purpose. 

  1. You have to set aside any dead weight that is going to bind you to your past, and you have to come to grips that it is for the making of yourself purpose.  
  2. Next you have to accept that what God is doing in the making, and breaking of you internally is not meant to harm you but to shape, and make you into what he Has purposed you to be. 

Here are 19 of the best choices that you can make to become a better woman in 2019

1. Stir up your prayer life, and get a deeper relationship with God.

2. Filter out the baggage that you have been carrying around by dealing with the emotional issues of your past. 

3.  Mend fences in your life by learning how to effectively forgive the people that hurt you. 

4. Take a leap of faith, and confront what hinders you from stepping into your purpose.

5. Apply your skills to become your own boss. 

6.Take your hobby to the text level by inviting friends out to join the fun this will help you become more social while deepening your Godly friendships. 

7. Learn when, and why you are saying no. 

8. Discover new places in your city. 

9. Become a resource for your community. 1

10. Shower yourself with one gift per month when you meet you goals. 

11. Take a college course to better yourself.

12. learn the meaning of clear communication in your marriage.  

13. Believe above all else that you are worthy of the calling on your life.  

14. Remind yourself that your past did not bruise you it bettered you as a woman. 

15. Become apart of a support group to help you with things that you currently are going through in your personal life. 

16. Take advantage of your husband in the bedroom. ( You do not need instruction in this area.) 

17. Settle the score in your finances by budgeting your expenses. 

18. Take time to breathe, and learn to love yourself more. 

19. be the peace maker in your home. 

I pray that this 19 steps to becoming a better woman will help you to stay more focused in marriage, ministry, and most importantly in your relationship with the only living God.

Breaking Up With Meat Is So Hard To Do (Going Vegan)

Breaking Up With Meat Is So Hard To Do (Going Vegan)

Tonight i made a choice to break up with meat, and this is not the first time that i tried at leaving meat behind but today is different i am on a healthy mission to change what i consume in my temple.

The love that i have for life has grown, and with this new growth comes a choice to live healthy, and i. Know that I had to do something that would raise a standard of change in my life by place one choice in front of what i long to do for so long “going Vegan.”

I want to share this journey with you to inspire you to seek healthier choice in your life to add balance, and more defining choices in your life that will make you more happier, and more define in your decisions that you make for your health as a woman,

I am going to be updating my journey daily on my Snapchat @mendthevow if you want to follow me to see how i am growing in the healthy life style change then come on for a front row seat as I share my veggie adventure. I know that it is going to be one thrilling ride to explore new things that awaits my tastes buds.

One of the main reasons i have really decided to take control of my eating habits with meat is because i use to run to food when I felt unappreciated by people, and even with myself I never took caring for myself seriously, and i would always wing how I handled food based on he mood i was in as mentioned in this paragraph.

I really am on a path in my life where i am not just serving God with my whole heart, but with my heart, mind, and now my body because it is the temple that he has blessed me with, and guess what He only provided me with one body so I must take care of it the way he intended me to do so.

There is nothing more Challenging that going on a self discovery journey without having any guidelines. Well I have been there many times in my life,, and it got to the point where I want to quit each, and every time! But you know the one thing that i was missing each times I has the mindset set to break up with meat? Determination is what i was lacking, and this time around I have it in the grasp of m hands, and there is no turning back for me now. I am so excited to see all that comes along with this journey. I am taking back my body, and loving it where it is now, and fueling it with the good things it needs in order to be able to shed the old exterior, and the extra load that my body does not need.

I feel really am finally mentally prepared to speak out on why gathering the strength to break up with meat is so important to me. Growing up all we did was go to family gathering, and church functions, and eat the day away, and though i was naturally petit as a child, and in my early, and late twenties i got very big boned when I reach the age of twenty eight years old, and at first i indulged in the weight gain because i was delighted about the hips, and behind that i gained. But the trust. Is as I got in my thirties I started to feel tired, and none exercisable. Truth be told i got really lazy, and really fell into the trap of I’m just a thick woman, and I’m happy with it but I was not happy on the inside, and I was to lazy to do anything about it until I started to feel the effect of be stagnant, and not feeling the energy that I use to feel before i gained a lot of weight.

Last year i started to hike, and walk a lot, and I switched the way i was eating, and in a matter of five months I lost fourth two pounds, and i was so thrilled, and for a while I stayed on the healthiest path I was eating the right way but every time something hit my life I would run to food, and I did not know how to control my intake. I would over eat to the point where my stomach would be in knots this is called emotional eating, and I knew I had to do something to change this about myself; so i really had to see myself different, and turn to God, and ask for His help, and He graced me with Heavenly wisdom, and with the courage that only He can provide for me to accomplish what I thought was impossible for me to do.

I am really going to be creating so new healthy things in the kitchen the vegan way and i can not wait to share them with you. I hope this journey that I am on will encourage you to do a self evaluation of your own intake with food, and I pray that you make the healthiest choice for your temple.

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