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Leanring To Love Him Deeper Through Prayer

Leanring To Love Him Deeper Through Prayer

This season in my marriage I have really learned the concept of letting go and really letting God do what I can’t in my marriage, and as a wife it is hard knowin that going deeper is not the most easiest thing to commit to but in yeidling to God in loving my husband through praying the things that are needed it most definitely worth all of the sleepless nights, and the time before God in prayer concerning how to nuture the love deeper toward my husband will cause a love that no demon in hell can come against. Why? because God is providing it.

I remember a time that I would not allow my husband to get close to be because of fear of rejection that might come from him; so i learned how to close my heart off from being prerejected, and what this did was close my love off in a major way to him, and i did not even know this was happening. I had to really take the things that i was doing into consideration, and really seek to change the way that I was pushing love away in my marriage.

Here’s so real truth….

when i was broken I did not care to see how I was dealing with the heart of pain that was spilling out from my heart, and for the most part I did not think that my husband loved me the way that he professed to. I was walking around with shame, and disparate measures of dispair. I did not know the first thing about real love, and when it encoutered my heart all I did was put a sheild up.

The things that i did to stop allow myself to push him away is I had to put myself out there, and admit some real horrifying things about myself to my husband from the darkness of my past, and this was declaring growth in my ability to show myself to my husband to be openly broken in my flesh, and to dispose the Shame that the enemy try to use against me.

Freeing my heart has mae me feel so free, and so alive within my marriage, and for the first time in a long time I feel spiritually free to discuss things that I have been through with my husband, and his love capture my pain, and loves me through it all. I am so grateful to where God in leading me in honesty with sharing my past with my husband, and praying for a deeper love within my marriage for my husband.

If you are going through a hard time with receving the love that your husband is pouring into you may I offer a word of advice and just say unleash the guards that is around your heart, and fully recieve the love offered from your husband to you. It can be this simple sis.

Silence wrecked our marriage. Unhealed wombs divided us. Unkept vows separated us. Hello! My name is Jereè and I began this BLOG to share my journey as a wife as I start the process of mending the pieces of my broken marriage with God’s help by sharing my life #UnMended. God inspired the name “Mend The Vow” which means repair (something that is broken or damaged)  Relationship with God and with our husbands. It is based on the Scripture in 2 Chronicles 24:12. My hope is to encourage other wives in the world who are, have been separated,and want to mend their marriage back together.

Loving Him God’s Way

Loving Him God’s Way

I’ve been really before God this week seeking Him on how to be a better me, and how to become a better loving, and more mature wife to my husband. I know in marriage there is no written guide to look upon to give instructions on how a wife should be but I know that with the things that I was use to doing as a wife in my marriage was not working it was only causing major distance, and discord between myself, and my husband.

So i know that in this season i want more out of my marriage, and I knew that it would take great sacrifice to gain the momentum That I desired as a wife; so sometime last month in July I ask God to help me, and He encouraged me to go on a 21 day fast, and I giggled to myself because I knew that this was going to draw more out of me than I wanted it to, but this fast was not what I thought it was going to be. I thought God only want me to fast for my marriage nope He instructed me to fast, and pray for marriages all over the world, and now that I am on day 16 of the 21 days of fasting , and praying for marriages God has been purging everything that is not of him out of me.

Yesterday I must have fallen into a worship from listening to this song titled “Hunger” by David & Nicole Binion my God this worship song is everything. I was crying out to God to make me a better wife, and also for me to love my husband the way God intended for me to love him. after having that ugly cry before the Father i felt so much better, and some of the things that I cried out to God about on last night I mean my God did He show up to my rescue.

God requires more out of Us as wives than sometimes we want to put out. But if you want to see a move of God in your marriage you have to empty out to God all the way Click To Tweet

There is no bettter way to love my husband than the way that God requires me too, and I say this because I was loving my husband the wrong way. I mean do not get me wrong i love my husband to pieces, but here’s the thing God showed me my flaws in how I was loving my husband, and how I was selfishly detaching my emotions from my husband when things we going wrong in our marriage; so God had to remind me of the Agape love it is more than unconditional it is a love that only the Father can pour into us that we can then pour out of our heart to others.

I am really grateful to God for picking up my heart, andk placing it back towards the heart of my marriage. I take nothing in this season lightly, and i am very fortunate for each blessing that God has bestowed upon my marriage, and as well on my husbands life, and mine as well.

Here’s some tips wives on loving your husband God’s way

  • Pray for your husband’s day while he is preparing for work
  • Listen to the heart of your husband when he speaks to you
  • Loose the attitude: this was a major game changer for me
  • Prioritize your time in your marriage
  • No cell phone action when you are with your spouse
  • Make sure you are attentive to his wants, needs, and sexual desires
  • Speak lve into your husband daily.

i pray that you shift you focus on what the Father is instructing your heart to do concerning loving your husband in the way that God is leading your heart to love your husband.

Silence wrecked our marriage. Unhealed wombs divided us. Unkept vows separated us. Hello! My name is Jereè and I began this BLOG to share my journey as a wife as I start the process of mending the pieces of my broken marriage with God’s help by sharing my life #UnMended. God inspired the name “Mend The Vow” which means repair (something that is broken or damaged)  Relationship with God and with our husbands. It is based on the Scripture in 2 Chronicles 24:12. My hope is to encourage other wives in the world who are, have been separated,and want to mend their marriage back together.

Distant Lover ( Please Remember Our Love)

Distant Lover ( Please Remember Our Love)

This month has been one of the stressful month of my year. August 1 made six years of being married to my husband, and I thought we were going to celebrate our wedding anniversary plans than that girl like that at all.

I never thought that I’d be back in this spot in my marriage once again a year later, and dealing with the distance that I never wanted to feel within my marriage again. It’s very hard knowing that someone that you love more than anything can just walk in and out of the house like you are a total stranger. This is really getting to me but i really am choosing to focus on what God is requiring of me in this season.

No words are ever easy when you husband tells you he does not want to be married to your anymore, and the fact that all you have to do is stand strongly on what God has told you to do is more harder than you can ever imagine. This morning was the wrost for me, and the more I thought about letting go, and moving on to protect myself I had to think about the promises that God promised me for my marriage.

See its in the times where we go through the most where God is looking to see if we are still going to be faithful or if we are going to fall by the waste side of life, and just cry and do nothing. Well this afternoon I ddi both I cried, and Prayed. I asked God to move on my behalf concerning my husband, and our marriage. You when God has assigned you to do something bigger than yourself the enemy is going to fight you on every hand, and it is up to you to remain obedient or fold. Well I choose to remain obedient to God, and what he has told me to do cncerning my marriage. I know no weapon formed against me, my husband, and our marriage will not prosper.

The one thing that the enemy tries his best to invade is the marriage ground, and if he cannot get to you he will sure plant seeds of doubt in your husbands mind of how things will never change, and how you’ll never keep your words to your husband. But I am here to let you know that if you are going through the fire of hell in your marriage I am screaming from the Heavenly gates that you must hold on because it is not over until God says that it is over.

God can do anything but fail, and it is in the critical time that we must place our hands into God’s hands, and have faith that He is going to djo exactly what he said he would do. The enemy has no place in your home or in your marriage. You have to pray to last, and you have to fast to strengthen yourself agaist all things that are not of God in your temple. The way may seem hard but God always wins the battle for those that believe on His name.

There’s a fight in the spirital relm for your marriage, and the enemy thinks he is winning because he sees your tears, and he sees my tears because whatever choice that our husbands are making at this current moment in their lives seems like the final straw but listen to me good What God has placed together not a demon in hell can come against.

So at this moment I want you to repeat this after me!

Dear God,

I ask that you touch the heart of ( insert your husbands name) and alllow him to see the error of the enemy ways that tries to get him to walk in darkness. Father help my husband to see the love that remains in our hearts for one another. God I kow that you can change thingns around in our marriage. I have the faith to know that you can, and will work it out for our good as husband & wife. I pray these things in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Silence wrecked our marriage. Unhealed wombs divided us. Unkept vows separated us. Hello! My name is Jereè and I began this BLOG to share my journey as a wife as I start the process of mending the pieces of my broken marriage with God’s help by sharing my life #UnMended. God inspired the name “Mend The Vow” which means repair (something that is broken or damaged)  Relationship with God and with our husbands. It is based on the Scripture in 2 Chronicles 24:12. My hope is to encourage other wives in the world who are, have been separated,and want to mend their marriage back together.

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