Maintaining Meaningful intimacy: Part 1

Maintaining Meaningful intimacy: Part 1

When most people think about being intimate they mostly think of ways in the most sexual ways they can please their spouse; but there are many other ways to be bring passion, and intimacy into your marriage bed without even uniting in the physical aspect of sex.

Commuication the best best intimacy when it comes to getting to know your spouse. It is the hidden things that capture the mind which fuels out into words from the brain from your spouse that flows to yuor ears, and the mere fact of being secure with you to spare the most hidden parts of ones self it the deepest intimacy share between two people. ~ Jereè Black

There are a lot of reason why you may have not tapped inyo true intimacy with your spouse, and there are some reasons to look upon in order to see the full benefit of going deeper into intimacy rather that to just focus on the sexual side of intimacy.

Here are 4 truths about your spouse that will ignite a deeper intimacy in your marriage. 

  1. Respecting them at all times. whether you are on good term or on bad term keeping a high level of respect for your spouse will weed out the errors made in an argument, and will settle the notion of creating a safe place to talk to you in a calming way.

  2. Actually listening to your spouse while they are speaking to you. This means that you are not on your phone, and or watching television ect. Giving your spouse your undivided attention shows that you can more than just saying it in words; but your actions arr profoundly showing the effort of I am listening to your heart.
  3. Creating time for your spouse, and not allowing anyone else to tag along shows that you want to spend quality time alone with them just to check in to see how they are doing on a mental level is very important in a partnership/ marriage.

  4. Honesty although it is an actually requirement in any committment marriage it is a must to remain truthful in your marriage no matter what. Being honest in your marriage creates a value that can not be bought or under valued.
True intimacy lies in the heart of trust where their is no secret to big or small that will stop me from being honest with my spouse about. Click To Tweet

Remember to always go outisde of the box, and learn how to equally share true intimacy daily in your marriage. Enjoy you spouse on different levels other than just rolling around in the hay.

Silence wrecked our marriage. Unhealed wombs divided us. Unkept vows separated us. Hello! My name is Jereè and I began this BLOG to share my journey as a wife as I start the process of mending the pieces of my broken marriage with God’s help by sharing my life #UnMended. God inspired the name “Mend The Vow” which means repair (something that is broken or damaged)  Relationship with God and with our husbands. It is based on the Scripture in 2 Chronicles 24:12. My hope is to encourage other wives in the world who are, have been separated,and want to mend their marriage back together.