Our Testimony

Silence wrecked our marriage. Unhealed wounds divided us. Unkept vows separated us.

Here’s What Happned in our marriage!
My husband, Seretse, and I got married on August 1st 2012. We weren’t best friends, and we weren’t certainly deeply in love, we desired to live under the law of God, and have a convenant marriage. This was 8 months of us knowing of each other. The first 5 years of marriage were physically and emotionally painful. Our greatest area of struggle was intimacy, emotional scares, and unhealed wounds from both of our past which amplified every other area of marriage. I found myself isolated from God and from my husband because of discontentment and anger
At the end of year five God heard our prayers and saved our marriage. In October 2017 we launched Mend The Vow and to share our story in hopes of giving other couples hope for their marriage. On top of daily encouragement through social media and blogging we are currently writing a book about marriage and having faith while separated,
God gets all the glory! He is the reason our marriage is getting stronger than ever! Our heart’s prayer is to be vessels to minister our testimony to other marriages that are on the brink of separation or headed for divorce like we once were.


Watch our marriage story on why we decided to get married!

My purpose and desire is to help and encourage other wives by sharing my journey in learning to enjoy and appreciate my life as a wife. God inspired the name “Mend The Vow” which means repair (something that is broken or damaged).relationship with God and with our husbands. It is based on the Scripture in 2 Chronicles 24:12.
And the king and Jehoiada gave it to such as did the work of the service of the house of the Lord, and hired masons and carpenters to repair the house of the Lord, and also such as wrought iron and brass to mend the house of the Lord.

God is not done with our marriage story  click here  for updates on our journey to heal, forgive, & reconcile.