The Recommitment

This morning God was really dealing with my heart concerning my husband, and how I slipped out of my caring position when it comes to taking care of the simplest needs of mr. Black. He’s spoiled to the third degree , and I had a hand in creating this monster LOL!

But seriously I am undeniably a brat to the core, and when things tend to not go my way I am very expressive about it. This happened from everyone in my family giving me my way. Now I am not saying this to prove a huge point, but what I want to point out to wives, and also wives to be is the saying ” Do what you did in the beginning to keep Her” Doesn’t just apply to us as women. It applies to men as well. men love to be spoiled but as much as we do they just won’t verbalize it.


So this morning i with a sincere heart did something very familiar to show my husband that I still care about caring for him, and this release so much tension between us. I know that a little goes a long way when the actions of what was once done hasn’t been done in a while. This had nothing to do with being intimate or sexual it was simply caring for him in the ways that I did when we were dating.

Sometimes we can get busy with being too busy with life that we may often loose sight of the caring our husbands need; so I want to pose a challenge to wives, and wives to be, Each morning as you wake up (wives only) be intentional about the care you place into your husband before he heads out to work. And whatever that care reflects in your marriage do it with a non sexual  because that is already a required package deal when it comes to being a wife.


And this is for the (engaged women only) spend adequate time with you fiancé don’t allow your freindships to over lap by spreading yourself too thin. Your fiancé next to God should be your number one priority ” I mena this is the one person that you are going to wake up too for the next 60 + years to so start now by honoring the pre-vow of your foundation with this man.


Words of encouragement goes a long way, and for men they can feel when you mean it or if you are just saying it just to sound compassionate. Trust me I’ve been there, and this is the very reason I can speak on a variety of things to help women that are marriaed or that desire to be marriage curve those pit falls in marriage.


Let’s pray

Dear God,

This morning we are at the mercy of your throne help us to not be negelectful wives to our husbands, but allow us to see the need, and the desire that our husbands long for us to satisfy. let our approach be done with respect, and love with  genuine care when we are caring for our husbands. Thank you for hearing the cry of our hearts this morning, and when we feel like we do not need to tend to the needs of our husbands whether we are too busty or upset with them please remind us of the days where we did not have a good man, and the days where we were lonely, and praying for a husband. We love you, and adore you God. I pray these things in Jesus’ name. Amen.